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Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

An Ananda Minister, Counselor, Hatha and Raja Yoga Teacher and Co- Director of the Ananda Meditation Teacher Training. Diksha teaches many different courses at The Expanding Light Retreat. She is also an outstanding chef and very knowledgeable about the yogic diet and Ayurveda, an Indian system of natural health and healing.

Diksha has created and hosts Online Vegetarian Cooking for Health and Vitality, a 4-season video series. She is the author of Global Kitchen and Vegetarian Cooking for Starters.

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Peter
SA

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Hi, Is there a specific time to meditate? Also do clothes matter in meditation? Like can a person meditate wearing boots and jacket due to coldness? So how can a person meditate in a cold room especially during a cold season?

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

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Dear Peter,

The time to meditate is when you can do it regularly.

Recommended are dawn (just after awakening), twilight, high noon, and midnight. Another time is in the evening, just before bedtime. It’s also easier to meditate on an empty stomach 2 – 3 hours after meals. So set aside the same time or times each day for your meditation.

Roberto
Netherlands

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Hello Ananda Friends,

I’ve a question about the hong-sau technique. It’s been told to me that we’ve allways have to be concentrated at the Christ center and not above to the crown chakra or we have a chance to leave of our bodies. But when I concentrate on the Christ center sometimes I feel a pressure at the crown. Can you maybe explain me if this is wrong or what this exactly is? It makes me afraid since somebody told me when can leave our body’s this breaks my concentration.

Thank you,

Roberto

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Roberto,

Paramhansa Yogananda taught that, when we practice Hong-Sau, although we fix our gaze at the Christ center, between the eyebrows, we focus our attention on the breath.

The Christ center is the sixth chakra, the center of enlightenment. Only after all our energy has been brought to that center will a doorway open from the sixth chakra to the seventh, the crown chakra, the center of liberation. If you focus prematurely at the crown chakra, however, it’s quite possible to become ungrounded and restless, perhaps even mentally unbalanced. Stay at the spiritual eye.

Bina
USA

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Could you please tell what exactly it means that one should be submissive and surrender. A woman should be submissive to her husband. Even scriptures teach it... Why should we be submissive and surrender? What exactly does being humble mean?

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Bina,

Paramhansa Yoganada said that in a relationship between a man and a woman, a man should see the woman as a manifestation of Divine Mother, while the woman should see the man as a manifestation of the Heavenly Father. Equality. Their relationship should be based on mutual respect, inspiring each other, and serving each other with love and respect.

Mike
USA

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I’ve asked many questions in the past, but believe this will be my last one. Krishna appeared in my heart as I went breathless one day, but I became lost, forgetful and worldly months after. I’ve felt myself slowly change, I think I’ve only hurt myself, with a numbness of heart. I actually kind of feel closer to God now because I feel so broken inside, but before I guess I was more like a child. Does everyone experience the afterlife, will mine maybe be darker now and without the people I love?

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

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Dear Mike,

You have experienced God, in the form of Krishna. This is a great blessing. God is always waiting for us to come back to Him—no matter how far we have strayed away from Him.

We all have times when we lose inspiration or direction, but instead of dwelling on what has gone wrong, go back and start meditating again. Krishna says in the Bhagavad Gita: "Even a little practice of meditation will free one from dire fears and colossal suffering." Pray sincerely to God to help you. Listen for His answer in your meditation as well as during outward activity. When you seek God and act in dharmic ways, to the best of your ability, things will get better.

Nirja
India

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Dear friend,

Every time I try and focus on the third eye whilst meditating, my eyes feel stressed and hurt. Am I supposed to pull my eyes up and focus on the space between the eyes, or draw my attention there whilst looking straight? I have this dull ache in the region as well.

Could you also help me with some advice about forgiving someone? I have tried praying for him, but the end was just so disrespectful towards me that I can’t bring myself to offer a genuine one that makes me feel stuck in the past.

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

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Dear Nirja,

In the practice of meditation, when you experience “hurting eyes,” it is generally caused by tension or eyestrain, from trying to position the eyes awkwardly. Avoid straining the muscles of your eyes, trying to look between your eyes brows.

Nirja
India

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Dear friend,

I have had this question for a while, but I feel like this situation is getting worse, but can meditating a lot (thrice a day) make you more sensitive? I feel like I’ve been crying way too much lately, even by my standards :) Even someone mistakenly raising their voice at me seems to break my heart. Also, how do I meditate without any expectation from the practice? I feel like I get low when I don’t seem to get that point of peace during. What am I doing wrong? Thank you:)

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

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Dear Nirja,

A person can go through a phase, in his meditation practice, of becoming very sensitive, but usually it is accompanied by inner strength too. The meditation practice helps a peson to become sensitive to the world around him, without been overly focused on himself.

Sweety
India

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Hi Diksha!

I was just going through your answer on traits of a person newly in the human body.I want to be a little more clear on this. Are all lazy people new in the human body? Traditional values have degenerated. We see many young men and women being involved in innumerable flings both before and after marriage. Some people are cunning and manipulative in relationships and also in general. Are they all new in human bodies? Can a person who shows clear signs of manipulation in character change in 1 incarnation?

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

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Dear Sweety,

Not all people who are lazy are new to the human body. People can develop wrong habits and evil qualities through many incarnations, as they continue to follow the wrong path, away from God.

People can change in one incarnation, and make great progress, if they turn towards God whole heartedly. Of couse the degree of change depend on how much energy and will they put into transforming themselves and purifying their actions. It says in the Bhagavad Gita: "Even the worst of sinners, by steadfast meditation on Me, speedily comes to Me!"

April 28
2013

Tina Sahdev
india

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I married 10 months back & met my husband around a year before marriage. Two months back I learned that my husband has been sleeping with strangers. During counseling it was revealed that he felt rejected by me physically as well as emotionaly.

I admit that owing to my lonliness & age I could not push him away at the right time, even though I saw lots of flaws in him. But today I'm torn between helping him recover to repay the karmic debt & wanting to run away not being able to forgive him. What should I do?

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Tina,

Marriage is a sacred bond and loyalty is the foundation for building trust and love between two people.

I am glad that you have gone to counseling to clarify and understand what happened.

If both of you are willing and committed to re-build the marriage with loyalty and trust, then there is a chance to restore the marriage. Both of you need to do your best, and to communicate your feelings and needs with each other with respect and support.

sam
us

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What's the best way to overcome desires, fulfillment or denial. On the one hand,

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Sam,

I am glad you have reached this realization. This is the battle of life, that we are all fighting. When you reach this realization and really want freedom, you are ready to embrace the spiritual path, and use the weapons of the meditation techniques to free yourself from the bondage of desires.

Truthseeker
Saudi Arabia

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I have been practicing Hong-Sau for a year now, and I'm experiencing a problem I faced in the beginning - to sit upright without causing pain in the back! It's been a week now and I'm getting disappointed, as this spoils my meditations, which were so peaceful a week back. I tried to relax and check myself in the mirror to see if my posture went wrong, but it's not helping. I really need an answer.

Thank You!

Nayaswami Diksha

Nayaswami Diksha

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Truthseeker,

There are different things that you can try to remedy this situation. Please be patient and keep experimenting until you find the right position that will work for your body, when you sit to meditate.

1. Before you sit to meditate, practice the Energization Exercises. This will help loosen up the energy in the spine.

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