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Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

A long-term teacher and minister, Hriman is one of the founding members of Ananda. He combines keen intellect and insight with a lively sense of humor, which makes his perspective on spiritual topics down-to-earth and practical. He is a Kriyacharya (authorized Kriya Yoga teacher).

Hriman and his wife Padma are the spiritual directors of Ananda Seattle, where they have lead the work since 1994.

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Andy Salgado
America

Question

I have been meditating for about a year. Basically since my meditation I have been feeling a constant tingling in my body, it feels as if my actions are a lot slower and I am more aware. This tingling won’t leave so I’m making sure it’s okay, right?

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

Andy, may I assume that this tingling sensation continues during your waking activities, and not just during meditation?

The experience of a tingling sensation is not at all uncommon in the practice of yoga and pranayam and meditation, though to have it all the time is a bit unusual (you didn’t say exactly how long, however).

mary
usa

Question

Our abundance externally seems to be linked to our realization of our Divine abundance internally. How does Karma interface with this? Also I think that the more I love God the less I need to ask others for wisdom. And the more I realize that my “truth” is not the truth others may perceive for me. Thank you for responding. Blessings to you.

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

Dear Friend,

In your note above you’ve brought up several subjects and it may be helpful to be clear about what they are:

1. Does material abundance flow from (what you term) “Divine abundance internally”?

2. How does karma affect #1?

June 11
2013

Peter
South Africa

Question

Hi my name is Peter. I have being trying to meditate but it’s being hard for me because I am finding it hard to concetrate, sometimes I can keep concentration but nothing happens, I don’t see anything, no light, no image. How can my spiritual eyes open in meditation to be able to get into these realms mentioned

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

Dear Peter,

Many years ago when Swami Kriyananda was new to meditation and living with Paramhansa Yogananda, Kriyananda complained to his guru that he didn’t think he was getting anywhere with meditation. Yogananda replied that "You are trying to hard!" Relaxation is the key!

Shalin Joseph
India

Question

Hello

I ended up with an estranged relationship with a very close buddy when I found she was being a clever wth me. We had a nasty fight with counter-accusations. Over the months I realized cleverness is in her nature and she doesn’t consider it bad.

I extended an olive branch with good intention, apologized, but also explained to her "lovingly" how cunning acts can harm, hurt others and isn’t a good thing. She misunderstood me again and resented my mail strongly. Could you tell me where I went wrong?

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

Dear Friend,

In a close relationship, candor (fact-telling) will sometimes backfire and cause more harm than good. Knowing, as you indicate you discovered, that your friend tends toward cleverness, it might have been best for you simply to accept that trait and learn to work with it positively.

May 15
2013

Zain-UL-A­bdin
Pakistan

Question

HELLO ... IM TOO LAZY IN MY STUDIES AND WANT TO BE TOPEST STUDENT AND WANT TO TAKE EXCELLENT % IN MY UNIVERSITY. IM TOO WEAK IN STUDIES AND IM ABSENT MINDED TOO AND I LIVE IN A IMAGINATION (DREAMY WORLD) AND I TALK WITH MYSELF !

AND I WANT TO BECAOME A SUCCESSFULL ENGINEER.

WAHT SHOULD I DO ? WILL U PLEASE HELP ME ?

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

Dear Friend,

Many people suffer from the problem you describe: we want success but we don’t want to put out the effort that it takes to become successful.

One of the keys to success is to start small: start with things you can do today! Right Now! With day-to-day duties, if you say you are going to do something, SIMPLY DO IT!

Bina
US

Question

Hi!

In the last couple of years I have acted and thought in ways which are clearly against God’s wish. I have been jealous, angry and malicious, and also rude and hurtful to many. I have been ignorant. I have realised my mistake now. I am scared. I wll be punished. Will God forgive me?

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

Dear Friend,

God’s love is always there for us. God knows our soul and our soul is ever perfect, ever-free. Affirm your love for God, for freedom from delusion, and your ever-joyful Soul inheritance and nature.

You can mitigate the karmic push back of the past actions you’ve described in a number of ways: making good to those you may have hurt (beginning with prayer and intention and extending into outward words and actions where feasible and appropriate); extending friendship and love to others (esp where those whom you may have hurt are no longer around or for whatever reason you cannot approach them); deepening your love for God and service to God through your daily activities;

Mary
Chennai

Question

What is the best way to remain non-judgemental, calm, and composed even when we see grave injustice?

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

Dear Mary,

While I do not know specifically what "grave injustice" you might be referring to, there is a difference between righeous indignation and anger or upset.

As Arjuna conducted his part in the battle of Kurukshetra and as Jesus drove the moneychangers from the temple in Jerusalem with a whip, and as Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King expressed with great force their campaigns for social justice, there is a place, in principle, for responding with great energy.

April 27
2013

Faith
Canada

Question

Hello! My question is concerning fears. For a while now I have been having panic attacks, and fear has made me a different person than I used to be. I used to think that I could do anything, but now is the opposite. Fear is not letting me move forward in life and take new chances. I always think that I will fail in whatever I do. What is the best way to overcome fear So that I can move on with my life and not be afraid of welcoming new opportunities?

Thank you and blessings!

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

Dear Faith,

Lord Krishna in the Bhagavad Gita makes this immortal promise: "Even a little practice of this (meditation and right attitude) will free one from dire fears and colossal sufferings."

I, too, used think of myself as fearless. As the years rolled by I realized that, though not especially plagued by fears, everyone is challenged (aka stressed) by life's many seeming obstacles and opportunities.

AJ
India

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I have always wanted to make genuine friends, and be liked by everyone. But I have been an ignored person since school days. People who have never even spoken to me judge me & ALWAYS make negative opinions about me. I am nothing but a laughing stock for people. I tried talking about this with my father, and he thinks I have a poor body language. I don’t understand that either. I strongly believe in Karma & do good, but all I receive in return is people stabbing me in the back. Please help.

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

Dear Friend,

One key precept well worth practicing, even if at times not easy to do, is to distinguish between how others respond to you and how you respond to them.

What I mean by this is simply that we can make our lives miserable if we concern ourselves too much with how other people treat us, and, all too often, what we "imagine" they may think of us. We cannot help or control the behavior of other people. The sooner we can accept that, then we can be begin working on our own behavior. As Mahatma Gandhi said so well and now famously: "Be the change you seek."

james tucker
usa

Question

Hi,

My question is, after meditation and transitioning back into activity is there something I should focus on to keep the practice going? I heard you can focus on breath or something like that. What does Ananda teach on a constant focus in activity? Do I continue to chant hong sau and focus on spiritual eye just like in meditation? Thank you.

Nayaswami Hriman

Nayaswami Hriman

Ananda Seattle

Answer

James,

Being mindful during daily activity after meditation begins as soon as one gets up from meditation as you have indicated in your question.

How to do it depends on both temperament and circumstances. For starters, as you walk about and go about your daily routine, do so slowly and mindfully. Hold your feeling at the spiritual eye or in the heart as best you can. If possible, mentally chant a mantra or phrase that you feel inspired by.

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