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Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru is a founding member of Ananda Village, as well as a Lightbearer, teacher, and writer. He has taught and lectured for over 35 years in America and Europe and is a co-author of The Yugas: Keys to Understanding Our Hidden Past, Emerging Energy Age, and Enlightened Future.

Puru is very entrepreneurial and has served in the management and business development of Ananda Village, as well as founding his own web design company, Tristream. Puru lives with his wife Lakshmi at Ananda Village in Northern California. Their four children are now grown and gone.

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Sneha
India

Question

Dear Puru Selbie,

Thank you for your answer on guilt.You have said after we have taken steps to undo the wrong or atone or apologise, we should move on and ensure we don’t repeat the mistake. Three years back,I had spoken very rudely to our maid servant who is 10 years older than me, and asked her to leave the job, coz she wasn’t doing her job properly and arguing. She felt very insulted and left. I feel bad for it and similar situations are coming back in my life. How do I undo the wrong. Will an apology help?

Sneha

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

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Dear Sneha,

If there are direct actions you can take to rectify a wrong done to someone else, such as making a sincere apology, by all means you should consider doing so. Further, if (in your case) you wanted to offer her the opportunity to return as your maid — if you sincerely want to have her back as your maid — then by all means consider doing that also.

March 26
2013

Sneha
India

Question

Swami Kriyanand says guilt is a sin. But if a person has wronged someone terribly and moves on without any guilt, how will he advance spiritually? From our childhood, we have heard that a man of true character always has remorse for his wrongdoing. Could you pleas explain the contradictions in teachings?

Thanks / regards

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

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Dear Sneha,

I'm not sure I ever heard Kriyananda specifically say that guilt was a sin, but I have heard him describe continuous guilt (if felt for years, long after a mistake had been made) as a useless emotion, and even damaging to one's spiritual progress — perhaps this is what he meant.

Sai
India

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I would like to know your view on this thought: How can anyone predict my future if I have taken the choices in my hands, instead of passively leaving it to old habits, fate, and karma?

If I knowingly change myself, how can unknown things affect me? Or is my change itself a part of fate? Anyways, I don't want to be a part of the puppet show where my ignorance governs the show.

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

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Dear Sai,

Your question is a deep and important one. Pared down to its essence, your question asks about the nature of free will and whether it exists. Or as you put it initially, if one has free will, how can one's future be predicted?

Let me try to answer your question by answering it several different ways:

sharon
usa

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When lifeforms achieve once more the infinite and merge back into the vast consciousness, will there be any consequence to the infinite; having had part of it go out that way ... deflate, re-inflate, and return again? If the nature of the bliss that it is, was to expand into aspects vulnerable to duality, and then finally return to oneness. In other words, was there any resolved effect or new cause created in having completed the drama, or dream? Did any improvements ... or even changes result?

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

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Dear Sharon,

This is a very interesting question, but one to which I don't believe I've ever seen a direct answer from Yogananda or any other Master. So I can only speculate.

On the one hand, the Infinite Consciousness from which all creation springs is said to be Itself changeless, and that all that appears to be changing around us is in fact illusion. On the other hand, the Masters say that each of us is a unique spark from the Divine Fire and that we have a degree of free will with which we can guide our own journey back to the Fire.

Will
USA

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I just re-read "Resurrection of Yukteswar" in "Autobiography of a Yogi", and in one passage it says "... Such beings have only astral and causal karma to work out." (p. 413)

I understood that in the astral world one could still have karma to be worked out, but not in the causal world.

Do you have any notion of what kind of karma we would still be carrying once we reach the causal world?

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

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Will,

Let me preface my comments by encouraging you to again read the Autobiography of a Yogi chapter, "Resurrection of Sri Yukteswar." Your answers are there - and probably better ones than I can give you - but I'll do my best.

According to Sri Yukteswar, causal karma exists, but it is almost indescribably subtle. The root cause is the same as for physical and astral karma - desire. Physical plane desires are perhaps easiest for us to comprehend. Fulfillment of those desires requires that we be on the physical plane and the nature of those desires revolve around our physical bodies and our egos. Likewise astral desires. Fulfillment of those desires requires that we be on the astral plane and the nature of those desires revolve around our astral bodies and our egos. But causal desires are nearly impossible for us to understand because causal beings have no bodies - but there is still the smallest thought of separate existence from God - and thus the ego still exists.

k
India

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I recently watched on Discovery about existence of parallel universe on other side of blackhole. Does astral worlds and causal worlds lie behind black hole? Even light which is the base of all creations as depicted in Autobiography of a Yogi cannot escape black hole. Why? What power lies behind it? Also there is no time in blackhole that is timelessness exist there. Does light depicts Shakti (God in motion) and blackhole represents static motionless aspect of God. Please clarify.

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

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k,

You've asked many questions about realms of knowledge that I find fascinating.

Today, many programs like those on the Discovery Channel speculate on the idea of parallel universes created when black holes form - or as a result of many other possible causes, including other universes being created by people making choices: in one universe they made one choice, in the other another choice was made.

April 3
2012

Kailash
Saudi Arabia

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Just a question that I wanted to ask out of curiosity - Are the tales in Ramayan true or mostly symbolic? My brother refuses to believe in the epic, for which I replied that most of the stories might have been symbolic ones created by saints in the past to explain Man's battle with evil. But he needed an answer, so I decided to ask the very question to my most favourite website!

Thank You!

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

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Dear Kailash,

While researching and writing the book, The Yugas, I arrived at the conviction that much of the Ramayana, and other ancient epics, is probably true.

According to the cycle of the yugas, as expounded by Sri Yukteswar, Yogananda's guru and author of The Holy Science, the Ramayana was likely composed during the last Treta Yuga. During Treta Yuga, mankind as a whole possesses mental powers that are only hinted at today. Sri Yukteswar said that mental telepathy was the normal means of communication during Treta Yuga and that mankind as a whole would comprehend the "Divine magnetism."

Dhivakar S
India

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Recently I went in to Raja yoga medition by sahaj Marg and having a confusion whether I need to follow Raja Yoga or Kriya yoga. Please suggest me which path I need to go and how to choose ?

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

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Dhivakar,

Your question is really two questions in one. One question is: Should I practice the teachings of sahaj Marg or of Yogananda?

The second question is: What is the difference between Raja Yoga and Kriya Yoga?

The answer to your first question is found on a very personal and individual basis. Different teachings, even though similar, even though originating from the same general tradition (yoga), feel different or - as one hears - have a different, subtle vibration. You need to spend time with each teaching, and ideally, with the teacher or diciples of the teacher, in order to decide which teachings feel best to you.

February 13
2012

Som
iNDIA

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I occasionally find myself having quite a bit of free time.

Apart from meditations, & feeling the presence of God (Both of which I do), is there any other spiritual activity that I might do ?

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

Answer

Som,

Yogananda spoke inspiringly and often about the importance of dynamic service - energetically and freely serving others.

He said that in order to achieve the "actionless state" one needs to become "intensely active for God." Outward service to others is purifying and energizing. Purifying because it takes one's mind off of one's own needs and issues and expands your heart to include other's needs, and energizing because one becomes a channel for Divine energy if one gives oneself fully into the spirit of service.

December 20
2011

TRANEA
Europe

Question

Did Yogananda say anything about life on other planets ?

Of parallel universes ?

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Puru (Joseph) Selbie

Ananda Village

Answer

TRANEA,

Yogananda made comments in his talks and in his Gita commentaries that indicate he knew there was life on other planets.

When asked if souls continue to reincarnate on earth until they acheive liberation, he replied that they also incarnate on other planets.

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