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Difficulty Saying “No”

Nayaswami Diksha

Question from Sangita: I find it difficult to say no when people demand or request something even if it causes me inconvenience. Some people are very pushy and simply not ready to respect my convenience. If I deal with them sternly some understand while others feel offended. Even if their offense is unjustified, I feel guilty if they show disappointment and try to…

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Heartbreak

Nayaswami Sahaja

Question from Jerma: Hi! I have caught my fiance cheating on me. He vehemently denied all this though it was very obvious and we had a huge argument on this as I was shocked on how he was lying when things were very obvious. Now I have solid proof in my hand. Do you think it would be right to confront him lovingly…

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Is It Ever Right to Use Harsh Words?

gopal

Question from S.Neethi: Is it okay to use harsh speech and tone when several rounds of sweet speech doesn’t help one to mend his or her ways? At times there are people who do not understand sweet or plain language. If harsh language helps to discipline them, the why not?

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People Newly in the Human Body

Nayaswami Diksha

Question from Sweety: Hi Diksha! I was just going through your answer on traits of a person newly in the human body.I want to be a little more clear on this. Are all lazy people new in the human body? Traditional values have degenerated. We see many young men and women being involved in innumerable flings both before and after marriage. Some people…

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How To Avoid Ending Jobs Bitterly

Tyagi Jayadev

Question from Hello: I am 30, an Engineer. My career of 5+ yrs has been very unstable and I already have changed 4 jobs, every job ending in a bitter way and am unemployed now, though I am technically strong, but not apt in managing relationships. Though I have tried to improve and things seemed to be improving, but maybe something to do…

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How to Meditate with One’s Spouse

Tyagi Jayadev

Question from Viktoriya: Could you please give advice on how to meditate *with* someone, not merely next to them? During daily meditations with our spouse? In group meditations? The problem I run into is split focus between the 3rd eye and the person next to me. Jai Guru

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Is There Such a Thing as a Remote Soul Connection?

Nayaswami Seva

Question from rangan: Is it possible for the soul to connect to another soul thru spirituality ? That is without the 2 persons meeting or communicating thru phone , internet etc . If so how ?

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Professional Relationships

Badri Matlock

Question from A: Hello, I am a graduate student at University and every week my colleagues and I go out for drinks after work. I am not at all interested in drinking but I feel obligated to join in..and so I tag along and have a drink or two just to be polite. Here people seem to take offense if you don’t join…

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Married to a non-meditator

Nayaswami Savitri

Question from niru: How do I encourage my husband to meditate? He is supportive of me, and believes in meditation, but he does not do it himself!