{"id":40304,"date":"2016-06-30T16:03:33","date_gmt":"2016-06-30T23:03:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ananda.org\/?post_type=ask&p=40304"},"modified":"2019-03-19T17:33:30","modified_gmt":"2019-03-20T00:33:30","slug":"discovering-inner-guidance","status":"publish","type":"ask","link":"https:\/\/www.ananda.org\/ask\/discovering-inner-guidance\/","title":{"rendered":"Discovering Inner Guidance"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dear Nirja,<\/p>\n

All the questions you\u2019ve asked refer back to the topic of inner guidance. When we finally come to the point where we are seeking a deeper understanding of how to live our lives in a better way, we need to know where to look. The answers to the questions that you\u2019ve asked all lie within your own Self, which of course refers to your higher Self. It\u2019s not that we won\u2019t ask for guidance from others who may be able to help us, but the answers they give need to find a resonance within us or we won\u2019t be able to use them.<\/p>\n

Inner guidance comes when we have a daily practice of inward listening, which is also called meditation. As you quiet your mind, and begin to still your restless thoughts, then answers to questions such as the ones you\u2019ve asked will begin to come. This is the listening aspect of meditation.<\/p>\n

To get to the point of being able to listen effectively, it is most helpful to have a meditation technique for concentration. Ananda does offer online meditation classes<\/a>, and also has a section on meditation on the Ananda.org home page. This will show you some of the basics of how to get started.<\/p>\n

Once you have begun a meditation practice, then you can also begin listening more effectively. This happens best at the end of your meditation time, when your mind is more still and concentrated. It is a period spent without the practice of techniques and in communion and inward listening.<\/p>\n

During this time you can mentally offer up a question to the Divine within, doing so at the point between the eyebrows. As you mentally offer your question, try to be as open and non-attached as possible to the potential answer you might receive. Then listen and feel in the heart center (in the center of your chest) for an answer. The answer won\u2019t necessarily come in words, but perhaps more in feeling. This is a subtle time, and the answer to your question will usually come in more subtle ways; so listen intently within.<\/p>\n

Once you feel you have received some direction in this way, then test it out by using it in your daily life. Don\u2019t move forcefully ahead in this direction at first, but test it out and see how it feels. Does it feel like a good direction to go in or not? Use your common sense at this point as well.<\/p>\n

Swami Kriyananda was once asked how one develops intuition, which is what I have described above. His answer was simple: “By using it!” But by using it sensitively, and without presuming that you\u2019ve received the final answer to what you\u2019ve asked. Feel your way, and you’ll find yourself being able to discover deeper answers to the kinds of questions you have asked above.<\/p>\n

In divine friendship,
\nNayaswami Parvati<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"menu_order":0,"template":"","categories":[],"tags":[],"ask_the_experts":{"question":"

Hello,<\/p>

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