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jon
norway

Question

Dear Friends,

Is it possible for Satan to know what I am thinking? Let’s say am praying, and I pray that I want to do better about something. Perhaps I tell God I want to meditate more. Can Satan then know about this and work against this wish?

Thank you.

Jon

Nayaswami Savitri

Nayaswami Savitri

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Jon,

Thank you for writing us all the way from Norway! A broader answer to your question would be that it is possible for anyone, including Satan to know what you or anybody else is thinking. After all, we are all one. It would depend on the levels of consciousness involved.

Nandini
India

Question

Paramahansa Yogananda has always urged us to seek God around us and in everything we do.

I would like to ask what does this truly entail? In our everyday lives, what does it mean to go about our duties yet keep the focus on God?

What is it that we really need to focus on?

Please shed some light on the same.

Nayaswami Devarshi

Nayaswami Devarshi

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Nandini,

That’s a good question, because it’s something that can really change every aspect of our spiritual life, including our meditations.

There are several ways that you can do this. With different life and work environments, and with various people and personalities, different approaches will work for each individual. Experiment! I'll talk about a few that you can try out.

September 30
2013

Bina
Uk

Question

It is said that karma is the origin of our destiny, so we should do good karma, and thoughts are the origin of our karma, so we should learn to have good thoughts. But though we are forced to learn math, English, history and chemistry, we are not taught what are good thoughts, and how to have them. How do we have good thoughts and how do we know what is good or bad?

Kristy Fassler-Hecht

Kristy Fassler-Hecht

Ananda Maine

Answer

Dear Bina,

In general, good thoughts bring feelings of love, peace, and harmony to the one experiencing them while not so good thoughts often promote the opposite experience.

If you’d like to understand in more detail about good or harmful thoughts and actions I suggest you read and study the Ananda Raja Yoga book, by Swami Kriyananda, which is the second course book in the Ananda course in Self Realization. Study especially Patanjali’s Yamas and Niyamas which Swamiji discusses with very useful examples.

September 3
2013

Miles
United States

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I’m sorry if this has been asked before, but how can I control lustful thoughts? When I hit sexual maturity at age 11, I had no idea what I was getting into, and I have developed bad habits as a result. These habits have made me miserable. I have overcome the desire in the past, but eventually I have always gone back. Do I just have to put more of my willpower into it? I know not to beat myself up, listen to uplifting music, and to see God as the doer. Is there any other advice?

God bless you.

Nayaswami Pranaba

Nayaswami Pranaba

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Miles,

Paramhansa Yogananda offered the advice of “nipping desires in the bud”, meaning that we should try to catch our desires, especially sexual desires, as soon as they surface in our awareness. At that point we need to shift our awareness to something that is positive and uplifting, such as listening to uplifting music or feeling God’s presence. Chanting is another very powerful way to shift the focus.

August 7
2013

Ajay Diwanji
India

Question

Having alcohol is bad for one’s spiritual growth, but what if one has wine occasionally or maybe just to taste but doesn’t get addicted. Is it still bad?

Tyagi Jayadev

Tyagi Jayadev

Ananda Assisi, Italy

Answer

Dear Ajay,

Yogananda describes alcohol as one of the three main weapons of maya. That’s a strong statement. I would’t play with it, not even a little, if you are a serious devotee. Just leave the taste alone, there are many other lovely tastes around.

Bina
UK

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Hi! Paramhansa Yogananda repeatedly told us to create a protective aura around us to negate negative magnetism. How do we build a positive aura apart from meditating and praying. Is there any book on that?

Nayaswami Devarshi

Nayaswami Devarshi

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Bina,

There isn’t a book dedicated to that subject, but Paramhansa Yogananda and Swami Kriyananda have touched on it many times, including giving us specific techniques and practices.

An aura is simply a way to see someone’s magnetism in visual form. Some people see them easily, while people who perceive more on the feeling level, rather than the visual one, can “feel” people’s magnetism. When our aura and magnetism are stronger, then we are less susceptible to negativity in others, and even to the influence of own karma.

Arsha M Dev
India

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I know Lord Krishna from my age of 2, I mean at a very, very young stage. My interest for him turned as an addiction, that was strongly opposed by many. So because of my parent’s compulsion I tried to avoid him at 13. I started to plan my life as a teenager and made many friends. Among them I felt more intimacy to some. About 7 years passed. Gradually, I came to realize that all I had intimacy for share some personal features resembling Krishna in face. What is all these?

Nayaswami Gyandev

Nayaswami Gyandev

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Arsha,

You are blessed to feel such an attraction to Krishna. Because that attraction is so deep, it is not surprising that those to whom you have become closest might bear some resemblance to the way that you picture Krishna. It is simply an outward reflection of your deep inward attraction to Krishna, the result of conscious and subconscious preferences as well as, perhaps, superconscious insights.

Akshaya
India

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Do flings and casual sex over a long period of time have a negative effect on the moral character of a man?

Someone told me that generally men who have had a number of flings over a period of time are normally extremely short-tempered, violent, and even cunning, selfish dishonest. How true is it?

Has Master said anything on the relationship between uncontrolled sex and moral standards?

Nayaswami Gyandev

Nayaswami Gyandev

Ananda Village

Answer

Dear Akshaya,

Yoganandaji was very emphatic that sexual activity is a huge drain on the life-force, especially for men. Whether that manifests as violence, or lethargy, or dishonesty, or shortness of temper, or any other negative trait will depend on the individual’s own particular weaknesses, which are likely to be magnified by the dearth of life-force. That, plus the fact that sensory overindulgence of any kind leads to sense-slavery, are definite indicators of a connection between immoderate sex and moral standards.

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