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I Still Love My Ex. Now He Has Died. My Heart Is Broken.

Tyagi Jayadev

Question from Trudy B: My Ex-partner and I broke up 20 years ago, we had a son together, but due to my Ex’s drink addiction and aggression we had to leave. Since we broke up we only spoke a few times on the phone. I was so in love with my Ex, he was my everything and though his aggression hurt and scared me,…

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Betrayal in Marriage: How Do I Come Out of the Pain?

Nayaswami Hriman

Question from shivi: I was devoted wife but my husband was playing with my emotions and making me fool. I discovered 2 weeks before the delivery of second child that he was having an affair. He again made me emotional fool, said so many lies and all. He didn’t stop there but even started disrespecting me at my back and saying wrong stories…

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Is He the One?

Nayaswami Hriman

Question from Maria: There’s this guy: I heard he likes me, and I eventually ended up liking him back. But this connection had always seemed to me, in my guts, that it could be something deeper. We’ve liked each other in silence for almost a year, but my question is regarding the universe’s doings. The past few months, I ran into him 4…

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I Feel Terrible About My Mistakes. How Can I Come Out of This?

Nayaswami Hriman

Question from K. C.: I cheated on my love. I came out clean by confessing everything. But after that I cheated again for several months. But I didn’t confess this time. I realized my mistakes, changed myself and I’m out of that affair. I feel very very sorry and guilty for whatever I’ve done. I can’t confess it again, for I’m afraid that it…

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I Am Married with Troubles. Should I Divorce?

Tyagi Jayadev

Question from Sven: Om Shanti. I have a deep question and I apologize for bothering you with it. I understand the Ribhu Gita… there is only Oneself. I came to realize this myself through meditation (I am a member of the Brahma Kumaris) after which I discovered the Ribhu Gita. Anyway, to make a long story short, I am married with two children.…

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I Am Married, Yet I Feel Attracted to Another

Nayaswami Hriman

Question from Anonymous: I am married to an extremely beautiful soul for a few years now. In a very unusual way I happened to meet a guy and the friendship cum attraction grew stronger. We are physically apart now but we do chat and plan to meet again may be months down the line. This distance has also calmed the attraction which was…

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What Is the True Dharma for Men and Women?

Nayaswami Hassi

Question from Radhika: According to Vedic Scriptures, dharma is explained for both males and females. So what is dharma of female? What is the responsibility as a female, i.e what is “nari dharma”?

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“Incel” and Healthy Attitudes for Men and Women

Nayaswami Hriman

Question from Mirza: I see the new trend of the word “incel” being heavily thrown around on social media and all internet platforms, by both young and old people, as a means to intimidate or shame others. Thoughts?

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What Is Adultery?

Nayaswami Hriman

Question from Brian: Why does the Bible say that whoever divorces commits adultery, and leads the other spouse to commit adultery too? I get it that divorce shouldn’t be encouraged because it isn’t favourable to the kids, and that introducing a step-parent (or new bf/gf) to their life disturbs them, but there is no cheating when the relationship is officially and publicly over.…

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Dealing With an Abusive Friendship

Nayaswami Hriman

Question from Natalie: I have been friends with this person for 10 years, and she is almost like a sister to me. However, I just realized how verbally abusive she is to me, and I cannot stand the emotional and spiritual strain anymore. I still care about her, but I want to have healthy friendships. How do I end a long friendship smoothly…