Loss of My Boyfriend


Dear Sir/Mam,

Before 20 days ago, I lost my boyfriend. I don’t know the actual reason of death. Before death he was chatting with me on whatsapp and according to information he talked to his father also on telephone.

I am in so much pain and try to recover but unable to do. He didn’t bother me after death and also didn’t come to my dream. Everyday before sleeping.I want to contact with his spirit and want to talk to him last time. Can you please help me? I will be very thankful to you 4 this.

—Anita Sihotra, India


Dear Anita,

I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like his death was very sudden.

Sometimes a departed soul does not have the spiritual skill to reach back to contact a love one via dreams or visions. So do not despair. But you can do your part to send your love to him in the astral world. This helps his soul very much, and it may also create an intuitive pathway by which you do receive a dream or a sense of loving connection from his soul to your own.

The book, Karma and Reincarnation by Paramhansa Yogananda is available from Ananda Publications in India. I recommend it to you at this time to help you understand the mysteries of life, death, and karma.

We are praying for you. May you be comforted and guided through this difficult time.


Mary Kretzmann, Director

Ananda Healing Prayer Ministry

PS. These quotes from Yogananda may be of immediate help to you now:

“Friends of other lives easily recognize one another in the astral world,” [Sri Yukteswar said]. “Rejoicing at the immortality of friendship, they realize the indestructibility of love, often doubted at the time of the sad, delusive partings of earthly life.”

Send your thoughts of love and goodwill to your loved ones as often as you feel inclined to do so, but at least once a year — perhaps on some special anniversary. Mentally tell them, “We will meet again sometime and continue to develop our divine love and friendship with one another.” If you send them your loving thoughts continuously now, someday you will surely meet them again. You will know that this life is not the end, but merely one link in the eternal chain of your relationship with your loved ones.

To send your thoughts to loved ones who have passed on, sit quietly in your room and meditate upon God. When you feel His peace within you, concentrate deeply at the Christ center, the center of will at the point between the two eyebrows, and broadcast your love to those dear ones who are gone.

Visualize at the spiritual eye the person you wish to contact. Send to that soul your vibrations of love, and of strength and courage.

If you do this continuously, and if you don’t lose the intensity of your interest in that loved one, that soul will definitely receive your vibrations. Such thoughts give your loved ones a sense of well-being, a sense of being loved. They have not forgotten you any more than you have forgotten them.