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Learning to Love

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from Ajay Diwanji: Should we continue our friendship with people who have treated us badly for whatever reasons and betrayed our trust? At times it is said that we should continue to be friends so that we get a chance to show them the right path. If we break off all ties, we lose that chance. How true is it?

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The Inherent Duality of Material Creation

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from Wilma Jeuring: In studying the Yugas I understand that there is an upward tendency that takes many eons, but also a downward tendency. How is it possible that when we are at the utmost enlightened period, with high vibrations, there comes the downward movement again? Why can’t these high vibrations prevent the downward movement? Is it because it is part of our…

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Can We Rise Above the Yuga in Which We Live?

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from Joann_mcdemott@yahoo.com: Regarding the yugas, is it not a personal and consequently a cultural choice as to what era one is living in? Karmically as well as physically and spiritually? Should not we all make a grander assumption for ourselves and just live in our own present time—not project antiquated notions on our societies and other persons? There are so many illumined…

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The Purpose of Guilt – Part 2: How to Atone for Past Mistakes

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from Sneha: Dear Puru Selbie, Thank you for your answer on guilt.You have said after we have taken steps to undo the wrong or atone or apologise, we should move on and ensure we don’t repeat the mistake. Three years back,I had spoken very rudely to our maid servant who is 10 years older than me, and asked her to leave the…

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The Purpose of Guilt

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from Sneha: Swami Kriyanand says guilt is a sin. But if a person has wronged someone terribly and moves on without any guilt, how will he advance spiritually? From our childhood, we have heard that a man of true character always has remorse for his wrongdoing. Could you pleas explain the contradictions in teachings? Thanks / regards

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Has God Already Dreamt Our Future Lives?

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from Sai: I would like to know your view on this thought: How can anyone predict my future if I have taken the choices in my hands, instead of passively leaving it to old habits, fate, and karma? If I knowingly change myself, how can unknown things affect me? Or is my change itself a part of fate? Anyways, I don’t want…

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Does the Infinite Evolve?

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from sharon: When lifeforms achieve once more the infinite and merge back into the vast consciousness, will there be any consequence to the infinite; having had part of it go out that way … deflate, re-inflate, and return again? If the nature of the bliss that it is, was to expand into aspects vulnerable to duality, and then finally return to oneness….

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Black Holes, Parallel Universes, and the Astral and Causal Worlds

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from k: I recently watched on Discovery about existence of parallel universe on other side of blackhole. Does astral worlds and causal worlds lie behind black hole? Even light which is the base of all creations as depicted in Autobiography of a Yogi cannot escape black hole. Why? What power lies behind it? Also there is no time in blackhole that is…

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Truth in the Ramayana?

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from Kailash: Just a question that I wanted to ask out of curiosity — Are the tales in Ramayan true or mostly symbolic? My brother refuses to believe in the epic, for which I replied that most of the stories might have been symbolic ones created by saints in the past to explain Man’s battle with evil. But he needed an answer,…

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Dynamic Service

Joseph (Puru) Selbie

Question from Som: I occasionally find myself having quite a bit of free time. Apart from meditations, & feeling the presence of God (Both of which I do), is there any other spiritual activity that I might do ?